We love our free will. This is a gift from God. Yet we don't always choose wisely, do we. I would say we all have made bad choices we regret somewhere in our past. We cannot let those failures defeat our future. We can learn from mistakes of the past, entangled sins, and messes we've made, and build on that. God our Heavenly Father also has a way of making beauty out of our ashes. He can make a symphony out of our clanging cymbals.
Jesus is the Hope of the world. Why? Because He made a way for our sins to be truly forgiven by God, so that we can be reconciled with our Heavenly Father, be freed from the chains of darkness and evil, and be liberated to live the life we were meant to live. That is a life of fulfillment, joy, and peace - spiritual peace in our souls, which is a very REAL peace. Nothing can match it, and nothing can take it away unless you give it away. Salvation is eternal, but sin can hurt your relationship with God, not to mention people you love.
Here is the truth - people will sell you something that will make them money that they think you will buy. Supply and demand...the more the demand, the more the supply, and then the more the profit for the seller. Marketing will manipulate you and entice you to buy their product, making promises and telling you what you want to hear. It's a business transaction. If you choose to buy it, and you are harmed as a result, they will justify it's not their fault. They didn't addict you. You made your own choices; it's on you if you implode because of it.
Why do people turn to addictive substances when they're pretty sure they are playing with fire? Pride is probably at the root of it. Wanting to be popular with their peers, wanting instant gratification, wanting to look good, feel good, fit in. They may view it as a medical remedy, or a means to an end such as sleep. Alcohol and drugs mock you, because they fool you into thinking they are helpful when in fact they are poisonous, open doorways for demonic oppression, and have a very strong addictive property that will keep you coming back for more, even when you know in the end it's making things worse.
They age you, cause you to act like a fool, or like a criminal, and can even make you abusive to those you love. They will shorten your life, destroy your mind, and in the end, lose confidence in yourself and lose popularity. It may cause you to lose a good job, a good relationship, and even a good future.
If you are considering taking this poison, please don't. Seek counseling, get to a good church, and talk to someone you trust and respect to work out your problems. There is likely something underlying that is drawing you to start taking drugs or alcohol as a beverage. Carry yourself with confidence that you are an individual who thinks for herself or himself, that chooses to do right and to make the world a better place, rather than being a menace to society. Others will follow if you set the example, but even if you stand alone, you are never really alone when you have a relationship with Jesus Christ. When you keep yourself healthy, you will be there to help others rather than being a burden.
If you have already become an addict, take one step in the right direction. The way to a goal is to start with one single step. There are many resources. Please reach out to us if you need help finding them. Remember that your sins have been paid for by Jesus. Salvation is a repentance and change of heart from who you were to who you can become - a new creature with a new master in your life: Jesus Christ. I assure you He is a good master, and loves you and cares for you because He gave His life for you. That is a true friend, a brother, an advocate. And He conquered death and the grave - I want to be on His team!
You can make choices - please choose wisely.